A guide for families
What to expect at an IEP meeting.
An IEP meeting is a working meeting about your child's education. It can feel formal — a lot of people, a lot of paper — but you are not a bystander. You are part of the team.
Who's in the room
The team.
A standard IEP team includes:
- You. The parent or guardian. You are a required member of the team.
- The case manager. Usually a member of the Child Study Team (school psychologist, social worker, or LDT-C). They run the meeting.
- A general education teacher. Required if your child is or may be in a general education setting.
- A special education teacher. Your child's special-ed teacher or someone who provides services to your child.
- The Local Education Agency (LEA) representative. Often a special-services administrator who can commit district resources.
- Related service providers — OT, PT, SLP, school counselor — when they're working with your child.
- The interpreter, if your native language isn't English.
- Your child, when appropriate — in New Jersey, by age 14 for transition planning (N.J.A.C. 6A:14-3.7); federal law sets the floor at 16.
You can also bring anyone you choose — an advocate, a family member, a friend, a therapist outside the school. You don't need permission. You should let the case manager know in advance so the meeting space accommodates everyone.
What gets discussed
The agenda.
- Introductions. Everyone says who they are and why they're at the table.
- Present levels. The team reviews where your child is academically, behaviorally, and developmentally.
- Goals. Specific, measurable goals for the next year — usually one or two per area of need.
- Services. What special-education services and related services your child will receive — the type, how often, how long, and where.
- Accommodations and modifications. What changes to instruction, materials, or assessment your child needs.
- Placement. Where the services will be delivered — and how much time your child will spend with non-disabled peers (Least Restrictive Environment).
- Consent. If anything is changing, you'll be asked to consent in writing.
What you can ask
Don't be afraid to slow it down.
- "Can you explain that in a different way?"
- "What does that acronym mean?"
- "How will we know if this goal is being met?"
- "What does that placement look like for my child's day?"
- "Can the interpreter sight-translate this form before I sign?"
- "Can I take this home and bring it back signed next week?" (You almost always can.)
- "Can we schedule a follow-up to discuss this further?"
Before you sign
Three things.
- The interpreter should sight-translate the document before you sign.
- You can take the IEP home to review before consenting. You don't have to sign at the meeting.
- You can consent to parts of an IEP — for example, agree to the goals but disagree with the placement. This is allowed.
If anything is unclear, you do not have to sign. See your rights as a parent.